Life theme: “I am”
North Node in Aries represents your soul mission, according to karmic astrology. Aries symbolically represents the EMOTIONAL RESPONSES, ATTITUDES and ENERGY to adopt and explore throughout your life.
There are THREE STEPS you can use to consciously attract a soulmate.
Step one: Appreciate your Libra talents
Compromise, elegance, diplomacy and being in relationship is natural to you
The first step in claiming your North Node in Aries soul mission is to embody the highest expression of Libra (opposite to Aries). Libra represents your karmic past. So definitely appreciate — but! Don’t make your Libra qualities the centre of your life.
Celebrate your gentle and refined side, and joyfully use your innate skill at negotiation and diplomacy (you do know how to smooth over the rough edges). Enjoy the harmonious environments you create, and the fantastic dinner parties you may like to give.
Study Libra to understand its highest potential, and choose to live that, holding Libra ever so lightly.
This is your first step to consciously attracting your soulmate.
Step two: Own your Libra karma
Careful of denying your own needs, codependence and needing approval
With a North Node in Aries, your karma is around relationships, marriage and business partnerships. Have you created painful situations due to your own indecisiveness, ambivalence or denying you have needs? Have you not asked for what you want because you’re fearful of rejection and not being seen as a “good” person? Bingo!
In past lifetimes, you might have been a judge, socialite, interior designer, or someone who lived on the surface of life. Have you created (or have strong feelings about) about superficial, social climbing, phony people where appearances are more important than anything else? There’s your clue!
This shadow side of Libra has to do with a fear of independence and of standing alone. It also means not trusting your instincts and being afraid of expressing your independent preferences.
Step three: Step into your Aries soul mission
Love yourself. Start something. Take a stand. Wear red (your soul colour)
Aries has an unshakable identity, is independent and knows what it wants. It’s the confident pioneer who follows her instincts, is unafraid of change and embraces new beginnings. Aries is assertive, active and often takes the initiative. It’s the fearless leader.
>No matter how foreign this sounds to you, this is the energy to step into over the course of your lifetime. In past Libran lifetimes, you didn’t fully develop a singular identity. You were “other” focused. A North Node in Aries soul mission is about developing that individual identity, a “me” focus.
If you want to know how to attract your soulmate, I’d even say put your needs first. I say this, because your tendency is likely to put others first, or getting into a serious relationship, before figuring out who you are (an early marriage?).
In this lifetime, it is imperative that you know yourself and take a stand. Not only that — you’re here to learn how to constructively use and handle anger.
Strive for internal peace, rather than focusing on achieving peace and balance in your relationships. This will actually improve your relationships and bring you enormous fulfillment and satisfaction.
The house where your North Node in Aries soul mission expresses itself, is the area of life where your new Self is being re-invented and re-born.